Having difficulty finding love? This is going to tell you why!
Aries (March 21 April 19)
It seems that you’re afraid of romance and commitment in general. Whenever the opportunity for love arises, you escape and find refuge in different distractions. You take to fitness, studies, work, or other leisurely activities to keep you preoccupied. You might even have the gall to take up a new hobby just to trick your mind into not entertaining the prospect of love. You need to just dive in and let yourself be vulnerable even when you’re not ready.
Taurus (April 20 May 21)
Your wall is as great as the one in Beijing. You have an emotional faГ§ade that you’ve put up and it’s quite difficult to tear down. You’re afraid of all forms of emotional vulnerability and so you don’t ever allow anyone to penetrate your emotional space. You only let yourself get close to people when they have proven themselves to be worthy of your trust and loyalty. However, it takes a lot of time and effort for someone to earn your trust.
Gemini (May 22 June 21)
You tend to hide behind the screens of technology and social media knowing full well that that’s not a place where anyone ever finds true love. You’re afraid of committing yourself to a serious romantic relationship and so you just choose to settle for social media dating apps and online romances to satiate your tastes for love. But you know that in the end, none of it is real. All the romance you have is in the virtual world.
Cancer (June 22 July 22)
You’re just in dire need of a huge dose of confidence. You think too lowly of yourself and perhaps it’s because of some bad romantic experiences you’ve had in the past. Or maybe these bad experiences were a mere result of your deficiency in confidence. You need to develop a sense of pride and self-worth. You need to exude an air of confidence if you want other people to be confident in you.
Leo (July 23 August 22)
You set your standards just a little too high, almost to the point of fantasy. Yes, it’s good to have a dream relationship in mind but take note that these relationships only mostly exist in dreams. You need to take a more realistic and grounded view of what love is. Stop trying to look for idealized versions of a prospective partner and start accepting people for who they really are.
Virgo (August 23 September 22)
You’re just too much of a detective. Stop acting like Sherlock Holmes. You expect the worst out of any prospective relationship and partner. You start stalking them like prey on their social media pages and you try to dig your way out of a hole that shouldn’t have been there in the first place. You try to find the worst parts of their lives to talk your way out of a relationship that hasn’t even started.
Libra (September 23 October 22)
You’re just a passive lover. You crave for love, but you don’t go out in search for it. You’re just sitting there waiting for the person you want to come along. You entertain a few people but you shrug them off on the chance that you might find someone better in the long run. Just take a dive every once in a while and start committing yourself.
Scorpio (October 23 November 22)
You’re just carrying too much baggage. Stop thinking about your past flames and the bad experiences you used to share together. Look forward to the future free from the grasp of your exes. The only way you can find love now is if you manage to just let go of your past.
Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)
You always try to become a person you’re not when you want to impress people. The bad thing about that is that people can always see right through you. You’re uncomfortable with acting like someone else, but you just can’t help it. Just know that you can’t fake being interested in something you’re not really interested in. People will be able to read between the lines.
Capricorn (December 22 January 20)
You try to act like a strong and indifferent person when it comes to love. You don’t want to present yourself as someone who is vulnerable and so you try to project an air of overconfidence and strength. However, you’re just coming off as cold and it can be intimidating to most people.
Aquarius (January 21 February 18)
You’re a cynic when it comes to love because of all the terrible romantic experiences you have had. You think that love is always going to be tricky with you and so you end up just avoiding it. You don’t want to get hurt again like you have been in the past and so you end up shutting yourself off from any prospective mates.
Pisces (February 19 March 20)
You’re too much of a dreamer. You watch too many Hollywood romantic comedies. You think that the only valid kind of love is the one that you see in the movies and you don’t settle for anything else. You’re caught up in La La Land and you end up forgetting that true love is raw, real, and imperfect.