It usually takes years of experience and numerous failed relationships to realize that you have a habit of falling in love with people who are not meant for you.
To see why you are constantly drawn to those you are not meant to be with.
That’s why we’re here to help and tell you why you keep looking for the love you think you want instead of the love you really need.
It’s not something that you consciously seek out, but you are always drawn to someone to be dominant with.
Deep down, you have a desire to be better than the other person, but ultimately, that gets you more bad than good.
Even if you don’t realize your partner’s submissive role at first, you’ll feel like a parent or teacher later in the relationship.
In the end, it will annoy you to always have to be the adult and mature partner.
And all of this tells you that you need to direct your energy towards someone who is your equal.
Yes, you may feel threatened by this person at first, but soon you will find that having a real partner is a relief.
When you think of your dream partner, you have a list of certain qualities and traits that they should have.
You put all of his good and bad sides on a scale and that prevents you from digging deeper and getting to know someone better.
You always ignore chemistry.
You ignore your heart and gut feeling and eventually you find that you are not satisfied with someone who you think was meant for you.
When you are a Gemini, you will always be attracted to someone who is similar to you.
You are drawn to spontaneous and adventurous people, someone who will be an exciting, romantic partner who will take you down a roller coaster of emotions.
Unfortunately, this is usually not someone who is right for you and not the person who will give you the security you need.
I’m not saying you should stop looking for butterflies.
My only advice is to consider other things when deciding on someone to spend the rest of your life with.
Look for someone who will be your safe haven, someone who will calm you down, and someone whose love will make you feel at home.
Your problem is that you are usually more in love with the idea of love than with the person himself.
And this idealistic and romantic point of view often brings a lot of problems with it because you completely go insane when it comes to romance.
While following your heart can be great, there are other things you need to consider before getting involved with someone, because unfortunately love is not always enough.
Make sure you find a compatible partner and someone with whom things have a better chance of functioning.
Lions are usually attracted to people who are similar to them.
Although they like to be the dominant partner in the relationship, they want someone to challenge their authority and someone they consider a decent adversary.
And while a relationship like this one is interesting and fascinating at first, it becomes tiresome and exhausting after a while.
You need someone who will be down to earth because that is the only kind of person who can bring a little calm to your life.
If you belong to this zodiac sign, you want to be in control.
You want to be perfect and you feel the need to bring everyone around you as close as possible to perfection.
So when you meet someone who is completely the opposite and whose life is in a mess, you see it as your mission to make things right.
Of course, this type of relationship can never end well.
You feel a desperate need to have love in your life that you usually fall in love with anyone who gives you their heart.
This is what you want to reciprocate and as a result, you are completely ignoring your real feelings towards this person.
I know that you long for a karmic relationship and want to find your other half, but you cannot force these things.
They happen when they are meant to, and the only thing you can do is wait patiently for them to happen to you.
If you belong to this zodiac sign, you will always be drawn to someone who is obviously unreachable and out of your reach.
You end up craving someone you knew from day one that you could never really have.
Scorpios love to play games, but that doesn’t mean you should chase someone for life.
If you really want to be happy, you have to look for something consistent and permanent instead.
How often have you heard of opposites attracting?
And while that’s the truth, it’s also known that people who are too different have a hard time staying together for long.
This is exactly what always happens to you too.
You are always drawn to someone whose character is totally different from yours.
And while this can be fascinating at first, you will later find that someone you have nothing in common with cannot be your great love forever.
If you belong to this zodiac sign, you have a tendency to fall in love with independent and self-sufficient people.
Although these are people who will not suffocate you and give you your personal space, it usually turns out later that they also neglect you emotionally.
I’m not saying that you should look for someone who is needy or obsessively jealous, but you should definitely look for someone who will give you their undivided attention and love.
The most common mistake you make in relationships is trying to mirror yourself in your partner.
If you really think about it, you’ve spent your entire dating life trying to find yourself in the form of the opposite sex.
But just because you think this is the person you want to be, doesn’t mean that they are your soul mate or that the two of you are meant to be.
Pisces are emotional givers, and that makes them the perfect target for emotional vampires and takers.
If you really care about someone, your love for them is unconditional and you never hold back your feelings.
Of course, this usually makes you feel drawn to the people who manage to evoke those emotions in you.
But unfortunately you are often in an empath-narcissist relationship and you are always the one who loses out.