1. Aries (March 21 April 19)
You have to learn how to take things down a notch. You are always in a rush, and you tend to overlook the important things in life. Just slow it down a little bit. Not everyone can operate at the same pace that you are running on.
Learn to just live in the present and enjoy the moment without having to think about your next move. You never know when true love is just sitting right under your nose.
2. Taurus (April 20 May 21)
Learn to weaken your defenses just a little bit. You are just a little too protective of yourself. People can get intimidated by you because of your cold and guarded demeanor. You seem like you are really distant a lot of the time and people find it very challenging to connect with you.
You want love but you have a hard time letting people in. Just let loose a little bit and allow yourself to be vulnerable.
3. Gemini (May 22 June 21)
You are just plain to commit to anything. Stop being a coward. Stop testing the waters. Stop being hesitant. Stop being so indecisive. Just try making a decision and try actually sticking to it. You don’t have good chances at finding love if you refuse to dive into anything. You have to be able to commit yourself wholeheartedly into a relationship for it to actually work out.
4. Cancer (June 22 July 22)
Yes, you’ve had your fair share of heartbreaks. Yes, you’ve experienced rejection in the past. Of course, it hurts to know that people have walked out on you in previous relationships. Stop sulking. Pick yourself up and learn to move on. No one is ever going to love you the way that you deserve if you are just going to be content in throwing a little pity party for yourself.
5. Leo (July 23 August 22)
Hey, Narcissus. The world doesn’t revolve around you. As a Leo, you are known to be a very proud creature. You crave for the spotlight and you always love being the center of attention. However, there is just no room for a relationship in your life if you refuse to deflate your ego.
How do you expect to accommodate another person into your life if you won’t free up some space for it?
6. Virgo (August 23 September 22)
Learn how to operate outside of your comfort zone. You have to start getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. If you choose to always just operate within your safe spaces, then you’re never going to find what you’re looking for.
You need to actually put yourself out there. You have to be willing to let yourself go once in a while and operate out of spontaneity. You never know what you’re going to find once you actually choose to step outside.
7. Libra (September 23 October 22)
Just because you’re afraid of being alone doesn’t mean you should be desperate for a relationship. You have to understand that being in a relationship doesn’t solve all the problems in your life. You have to get comfortable with being alone.
No one is going to want to be with you just because you aren’t comfortable with solitude. You have to want to be in a relationship with a person because of love, not fear.
8. Scorpio (October 23 November 22)
Stop carrying all of that baggage. Let the past have its place in history. Have eyes for the future. Live in the present. Stop carrying around all those grudges. You will never be able to make room for love to enter your life if you don’t let go of all your hate and resentment.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)
You have to stop rushing through your relationships. You have to be patient. Let things take their natural course. Remember that you can’t force anyone into love. You always have to allow for relationships to go through the necessary motions before you can actually get to anything meaningful. If you keep forcing the issue, then no good is going to come to you at all.
10. Capricorn (December 22 January 20)
Capricorns always have a major tendency to take themselves a little too seriously. You are too guilty of this. Just let loose. Grease up the hinges a little bit. Learn to just let things go. Live and laugh a little more. Nobody would ever want to be in a relationship with someone who is a perpetual grump.
There is just no fun in that at all.
11. Aquarius (January 21 February 18)
As an Aquarius, you’re an introvert. That’s understandable. But just because you are an introvert doesn’t make it impossible for you to find love. You just have to learn to suck it up. Put yourself out there. Surround yourself with people even if it makes you awkward or uncomfortable. It’s the only way you are ever going to find love.
12. Pisces (February 19 March 20)
Get out of your own head. You will end up overthinking yourself to death. You are an amiable and attractive person. Lots of people would want to be with you. You just have to stop psyching yourself out. You have to just let the chips fall where they may. Stop feeling the need to try and control everything.